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pezA few random facts about me, and about this journal, that a reader may want to know.
1. I talk about anything in this journal. Most of the time it's about anime, sometimes it's about my life, sometimes it's about a current issue, etc. If you just want to read fanfiction, go watch![[livejournal.com profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/external/lj-community.gif)
word_games instead.
2. I rant too, I complain about things. Sometimes I'll put those under friends-lock, depending on if everybody should read about it, or if it's addressed to just a few people, or if it's just simply something I don't want too many people to know.
3. You might notice that I don't complain about life too often. There are several reasons, primarily because I'm one of the luckier people who generally has a good life. Of course family and friends sometimes piss me off, but not to the extent that I want to go and rip their heads off. On top of that, I'm strong emotionally. Most things just slide by - I don't let things accumulate and get on top of me. So what if I broke a shoe lace and missed the bus and forgot to bring my wallet and had a really shit lecture and come back home to find the pipe's bursted, all on the same day? I deal with all of it individually rather than say "life hates me!!!". That's just me and how I deal with things. It doesn't mean my days are always better than everyone else's. I recommend everyone to try this method and take things one at a time too. Had your phone stolen? Try and be cheerful to other people, rather than rant to them about it. Because not everyone is ready to be sympathetic, and if you foul your friends' moods too, ultimately it's going to make yours worst.
4. That said, very occasionally I do go FUCK IT and need some time to "reconfigure" myself. Don't worry too much when it happens. If I have allowed comments to such an entry, feel free to type *thwap* Rise above it woman!. You'll make me very happy because that shows you understand me.
5. Because that's the way I handle things, and I lack the "sympathy" element in my DNA, I generally don't comfort people. I might in chat, depending on the person and the issue, but ususally not. So if you're feeling sick to your stomach and don't see me rushing to your side, it doesn't mean I don't like you. I just don't know what to say and fear making myself an idiot, or say something wrong. Or I might think that comforting you will make things worse.
6. I might occasionally (fine, quite often) be a complete idiot about things. Don't whack me too hard when it happens. Just, you know, point it out very gently.
7. There are a few people I hate. If you say something about certain people and you feel that I'm avoiding the discussion, that's most likely why. Read my LJ, my LJ memories, chat with me, and you'll find out who. If you agree, feel free to bitch with me privately. If you don't agree with me that's fine, just don't talk about those people in front of me (don't want war to start), or share my friends entries with them, okay? When I friend you I trust you won't do something as low as that.
8. And I forgot the last thing I was going to say. Oh yeah, I'm forgetful XD
1. I talk about anything in this journal. Most of the time it's about anime, sometimes it's about my life, sometimes it's about a current issue, etc. If you just want to read fanfiction, go watch
word_games instead.2. I rant too, I complain about things. Sometimes I'll put those under friends-lock, depending on if everybody should read about it, or if it's addressed to just a few people, or if it's just simply something I don't want too many people to know.
3. You might notice that I don't complain about life too often. There are several reasons, primarily because I'm one of the luckier people who generally has a good life. Of course family and friends sometimes piss me off, but not to the extent that I want to go and rip their heads off. On top of that, I'm strong emotionally. Most things just slide by - I don't let things accumulate and get on top of me. So what if I broke a shoe lace and missed the bus and forgot to bring my wallet and had a really shit lecture and come back home to find the pipe's bursted, all on the same day? I deal with all of it individually rather than say "life hates me!!!". That's just me and how I deal with things. It doesn't mean my days are always better than everyone else's. I recommend everyone to try this method and take things one at a time too. Had your phone stolen? Try and be cheerful to other people, rather than rant to them about it. Because not everyone is ready to be sympathetic, and if you foul your friends' moods too, ultimately it's going to make yours worst.
4. That said, very occasionally I do go FUCK IT and need some time to "reconfigure" myself. Don't worry too much when it happens. If I have allowed comments to such an entry, feel free to type *thwap* Rise above it woman!. You'll make me very happy because that shows you understand me.
5. Because that's the way I handle things, and I lack the "sympathy" element in my DNA, I generally don't comfort people. I might in chat, depending on the person and the issue, but ususally not. So if you're feeling sick to your stomach and don't see me rushing to your side, it doesn't mean I don't like you. I just don't know what to say and fear making myself an idiot, or say something wrong. Or I might think that comforting you will make things worse.
6. I might occasionally (fine, quite often) be a complete idiot about things. Don't whack me too hard when it happens. Just, you know, point it out very gently.
7. There are a few people I hate. If you say something about certain people and you feel that I'm avoiding the discussion, that's most likely why. Read my LJ, my LJ memories, chat with me, and you'll find out who. If you agree, feel free to bitch with me privately. If you don't agree with me that's fine, just don't talk about those people in front of me (don't want war to start), or share my friends entries with them, okay? When I friend you I trust you won't do something as low as that.
8. And I forgot the last thing I was going to say. Oh yeah, I'm forgetful XD
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